How we cite our quotes: Act.Line
Quote #1
Who does not seek to be remembered? Memory is Master of Death, the chink
In his armour of conceit. (1.98)
Hmm, it sounds like Elesin has a decent amount of pride, which (given his statements here) seems to be potentially at odds with his mission/acceptance of death. Hmm…
Quote #2
Only the curses of the departed are to be feared. The claims of one whose foot is on the threshold of their abode surpasses even the claims of blood. It is impiety even to place hindrances in their way. (1.112)
Iyaloja is explaining to others why she feels like she can't deny Elesin his request to take a local girl (who is betrothed to Iyaloja's own son) as his bride. Because he's on his way to the other side, his claims on others for deference and favors are pretty strong, it seems.
Quote #3
I said nothing. Now we must go prepare your bridal chamber. Then these same hands will lay your shrouds. (1.130)
Perhaps in an effort to keep Elesin's eyes on the prize, Iyaloja follows up a reference to his wedding with mention of his soon-to-follow death. Whatever her intentions, Elesin does not appreciate her bluntness.