If the Hmong know anything, it's that suffering is simply a part of life. Just look at their history if you don't believe us: after being driven from their homes in both China and Laos, fighting several multi-century wars, and being abandoned by the U.S. government, you can best believe that these dudes know what suffering feels like. And even those who make it to America don't get off scot-free, as we find out over the course of poor Lia Lee's ordeal.
Though emotional pain hangs over their lives like storm clouds, the Hmong manage to lessen their suffering by emphasizing community, family, and spirituality. You're never going to be able to erase suffering from the world, but you just might be able to change its shape. Inspiring, right?
Questions About Suffering
- What was the mental toll of the trek from Laos to Thailand for the Hmong refugees?
- Did the Americans contribute to the Hmongs' suffering during the "Quiet War"? In what ways?
- How does Lia's suffering affect the entire Lee family?
- In your opinion, is Lia still suffering by the end of the book? Why or why not?
Chew on This
Although they have their disagreements, Peggy and Neil earn the Lees' respect because they truly care for Lia's suffering.
Although physical suffering might be difficult, it's nothing compared to the psychological pain experienced by many Hmong refugees every day.