Girl Women and Femininity Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Phrase between semi-colons)

Quote #7

this is how you smile to someone you don't like too much; this is how you smile to someone you don't like at all; this is how you smile to someone you like completely (25-27)

Whew, that's a lot of smiling. Notice that girls are expected to smile to everyone regardless of whether they like them or not. Think that's a relic of a different time and place? Nope: girls are still expected to smile more.

Quote #8

his is how to behave in the presence of men who don't know you very well (33)

We only get mentions about men a few times in the text, so it's important to see what role they play. Here, it looks like part of being a girl is acting a certain way so that men don't judge you—or think they can expect something from you.

Quote #9

be sure to wash every day, even if it is with your own spit (34)

Okay, gross. But also, after all of Mom's lessons about how to clean and mend everything, she tells Girl that even she is part of the things that need to be kept spotless. Spit shine those knees!