How we cite our quotes: (Phrase between semi-colons)
Quote #7
this is how you smile to someone you don't like too much; this is how you smile to someone you don't like at all; this is how you smile to someone you like completely (25-27)
Whew, that's a lot of smiling. Notice that girls are expected to smile to everyone regardless of whether they like them or not. Think that's a relic of a different time and place? Nope: girls are still expected to smile more.
Quote #8
his is how to behave in the presence of men who don't know you very well (33)
We only get mentions about men a few times in the text, so it's important to see what role they play. Here, it looks like part of being a girl is acting a certain way so that men don't judge you—or think they can expect something from you.