How we cite our quotes: (Abbreviated Title.Paragraph)
Quote #7
He thought perhaps Twinkle would call for his assistance, but he was not summoned. He looked about the hallway and to the landing below, at the champagne glasses and half-eaten samosas and napkins smeared with lipstick abandoned in every corner, on every available surface. Then he noticed that Twinkle, in her haste, had discarded her shoes altogether, for they lay by the foot of the ladder, black patent-leather mules with heels like golf tees, open toes, and slightly soiled silk labels on the instep where her soles had rested. He placed them in the doorway of the master bedroom so that no one would trip when they descended. (TBH 111)
In this passage, Sanjeev is described more like a maid than a husband. Things that tip us off: "he was not summoned" (like he's at Twinkle's beck-and-call?); the way he surveys the messiness of the room; how thoughtful he is to put Twinkle's shoes away.
Quote #8
Apparently some activity was what the poor girl needed all along. For the first time we imagined the contours below her housecoat, and attempted to appraise the pleasures she could offer a man. For the first time we noted the clarity of her complexion, the length and languor of her eyelashes, the undeniably elegant armature of her hands. "They say it's the only hope. A case of overexcitement. They say"—and here we paused, blushing—"relations will calm her blood." Needless to say, Bibi was delighted by the diagnosis, and began at once to prepare for conjugal life. (TBH 9-10)
We don't think we need to tell you that "relations" is a euphemism for sex here. And in this culture, "relations" were only possible within marriage, so Bibi begins to prepare for wedded life.
Quote #9
My wife's name was Mala. The marriage had been arranged by my older brother and his wife. I regarded the proposition with neither objection nor enthusiasm. It was a duty expected of me, as it was expected of every man. She was the daughter of a schoolteacher in Beleghata. I was told that she could cook, knit, embroider, sketch landscapes, and recite poems by Tagore, but these talents could not make up for the fact that she did not possess a fair complexion, and so a string of men had rejected her to her face. She was twenty-seven, an age when her parents had begun to fear that she would never marry, and so they were willing to ship their only child halfway across the world in order to save her from spinsterhood. (TFC 38)
It's pretty easy to view an arranged marriage as a questionable deal for the bride-to-be (can you imagine moving halfway across the world for a guy you don't even know?), but it doesn't seem like such a fun thing for the groom-to-be either. Marriage as a "duty"? He doesn't even question it.