How we cite our quotes: (Part.Chapter.Paragraph)
Quote #1
The masculine ways people thought necessary, for a man to be handsome, made her afraid. (1.6.26)
One of the first things that attracts Madame de Rênal to Julien is that his youthful looks remind her of a girl more than a man. When she first meets him, she even wonders if he's a girl disguised as a boy. Julien wouldn't appreciate this, but it's actually what makes Madame feel safe enough around him to get intimate with him.
Quote #2
In the first years of their marriage, confidences about these kinds of fears and sorrow, forced out of her by immense need, had been met by her husband with a bout of coarse laughter, a shrug, and some platitude about the foolishness of women. (1.7.11)
Madame de Rênal isn't comfortable talking about her feelings with her husband. Every time she does, he just ignores her and talks about how irrational and emotional women are in general. It's hardly the support Madame is looking for.