The Book of Laughter and Forgetting Love Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Part.Chapter.Paragraph), with the exception of Part V, which runs (Part#. "Short Title". Paragraph). Part V has no numbered chapters—only title headings.

Quote #10

My God, it had been so long since anyone had asked her about anything! It seemed like an eternity! Only her husband had kept asking her questions, because love is a continual interrogation. I don't know of a better definition of love. (VI.5.6)

Love may be "a many splendored thing," but in Kundera's mind, it's also heavy-duty work. Tamina has lived a life of total isolation since the death of her husband, and she doesn't realize the degree of her loneliness until Raphael enters the café and begins to ask her questions. She's taken in by his interest in her—something she hasn't felt from anyone since her husband was alive. It's an irresistible captivation, and one that Kundera says must be part of love. Perhaps because paying attention to someone is a powerful aphrodisiac?