To the Lighthouse Manipulation Quotes

How we cite our quotes: Citations follow this format: (Part.Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #4

Foolishly, she had set them opposite each other. That could be remedied tomorrow. If it were fine, they should go for a picnic. Everything seemed possible. Everything seemed right. (1.17.57)

Mrs. Ramsay makes plans for getting Lily and William Bankes together. Her manipulation is actually quite conscious.

Quote #5

Mrs. Ramsay had planned it. Perhaps, had she lived, she would have compelled it. Already that summer he was "the kindest of men." He was "the first scientist of his age, my husband says." He was also "poor William—it makes me so unhappy, when I go to see him, to find nothing nice in his house—no one to arrange the flowers." So they were sent for walks together, and she was told, with that faint touch of irony that made Mrs. Ramsay slip through one’s fingers, that she had a scientific mind; she liked flowers; she was so exact. What was this mania of hers for marriage? Lily wondered, stepping to and fro from her easel. (3.5.14 – 3.5.15)

Ten years ago, Mrs. Ramsay had already begun to persuade Lily into marriage. Lily, however, seems to be one character who is immune to Mrs. Ramsay’s manipulation.

Quote #6

She had only escaped by the skin of her teeth though, she thought. She had been looking at the table-cloth, and it had flashed upon her that she would move the tree to the middle, and need never marry anybody, and she had felt an enormous exultation. She had felt, now she could stand up to Mrs. Ramsay—a tribute to the astonishing power that Mrs. Ramsay had over one. Do this, she said, and one did it. Even her shadow at the window with James was full of authority. (3.5.17)

Although Lily did feel a strong pull to marriage, she is quite happy she escaped and didn’t succumb to Mrs. Ramsay’s urgings.