Team Qualifications
Before you even think about what it takes to make it onto an NCAA team, we've got to talk grades. You could be the best softball player the world has ever seen, but if you don't have at least a 2.3 GPA (source) and qualifying standardized test scores, the only way you'll make it into a collegiate ballpark is by sitting in the stands. Yeah, it's harsh. But it's the truth.
In order to be spotted by a college recruiter, you'll want to put together your game plan (literally and figuratively) pretty early on in your high school career. You can't wait until you're a senior. Recruiters are already looking at freshmen and sophomores for prospects (source).
So what are recruiters looking for? If you're a pitcher, they want a fast arm, consistency, and a low ERA. If you're a position player, they want you to be flexible. (By flexible, we don't mean high-kick flexible; we mean versatile.) If you play first base, but they already have a star player at first, they want to know if you can switch to right field or third base (source).
Of course, hitting skills are paramount. If you're a slugger, then coaches will obviously love you. But even if you're not blasting homers every game, they'll still be interested if you're a smart hitter and good base runner willing to play small ball. (Think Derek Jeter.)
Coaches and recruiters are going to look at your resume, too. You'll need to be playing varsity at your high school, preferably all four years, as a starter. If your high school team wins titles, you've got a better shot. If you've been named MVP, even better.
You'll also want to play on a good club team and attend summer camps and showcases. The more you play ball, the better your shot of making it on a college team (source).
Finally, the right attitude is almost as important as your grades and your physical abilities. Coaches want to see someone who's focused, mentally tough, a team player, and a leader (source).
If a recruiter sees you in the outfield staring off into space while the pitcher is winding up or sitting far away from your teammates on the bench with arms crossed and a scowl on your face, then forget about it. Bye, Felicia!
So buck up, buckle down, and get your head in the game.