How we cite our quotes: (Part.Paragraph)
Quote #7
[From Mr. Patimkin's letter] "She is a Woman and it is hard for her to understand some of the Shocks in life." (8.133)
Like Neil and Brenda, Mr. Patimkin's stance on the issue of sex before marriage, birth control, and women is a little confusing. Brenda having sex and using a diaphragm is ultimately no big deal to him. His daughter's feelings are more important. He also suggests that his wife's reaction is too extreme, but, ironically, blames it on the fact that she's a woman.
Quote #8
[From Mrs. Patimkin's letter] "Times certainly have changed since I was a girl that this kind of thing could go on." (8.143)
Mrs. Patimkin is the only one who isn't confused. As a strict observer of Jewish law, she has her religion to guide her. As in many religions, sex before marriage is forbidden. Of course, unmarried men and women have been having sex against their parents' wishes since long before Brenda and Neil.