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Quote #7
The traditional idea of initiation combines an introduction of the candidate into the techniques, duties, and prerogatives of his vocation with a radical readjustment of his emotional relationship to the parental images. (125.5)
And…we're back to Freud. In this case, though, it involves a shifting of focus as well as dealing with the whole "kill your dad and marry your mom" thing. Coming of age in Campbell often means shifting the way you look at the world.
Quote #8
The gods and goddesses then are to be understood as embodiments and custodians of the elixir of Imperishable Being but not themselves the Ultimate in its primary state. What the hero seeks through his intercourse with them is therefore not finally themselves, but their grace, i.e., the power of their sustaining substance. (168.1)
Again, symbols don't hold any meaning in and of themselves, but just represent the true things the hero is looking for. Coming of age, at the end of the day, comes about when the hero understands that.
Quote #9
If the hero in his triumph wins the blessing of the goddess or the god and is then explicitly commissioned to return to the world with some elixir for the restoration of society, the final stage of his adventure is supported by all the powers of his supernatural patron. (182.2)
Interesting that, even though the hero has come of age, he still needs the support of his "patron" (i.e., Mom and Dad) to close the deal.