How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)
Quote #7
"Our failure was ordained, because the real family we set out to imitate does not exist in nature; a real family as troubled as ours would never dream of spending time together." (12.35)
Is Jack admitting defeat here? He basically says that imitating the perfect family—the sort of pretending he tries his whole life—can never work because the truth always creeps in. Then again, this is the grown-up author talking: Toby, not Jack, who presumably knows better.