How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)
Quote #1
What I mean is...him an Ma made this place together an, in his mind, she's still here. He cain't leave her memory, that's what I'm sayin. (1.98)
The kids' first experience with romantic love is profoundly negative, as their dad's love for their mom ultimately had awful consequences on their lives. With that as an example, it's no wonder Saba has such a hard time dealing with her feelings of affection.
Quote #2
Lugh thinks fer a moment. Then he says, Love makes you weak. Carin fer somebody that much means you cain't think straight. (1.101)
That's a pretty messed up thing to say, especially to your twin sister. But it also shows us how harsh the world these characters are inhabiting is, and how significant of an effect that has had on Saba and Lugh. Love is a luxury they can't afford.