How we cite our quotes: (Book.Chapter.Paragraph)
Quote #4
But let me hasten to assure you that not all marriages are conducted with such spite, for there are those who live together in great peacefulness, love, and loyalty, because the partners are virtuous, considerate, and reasonable. (2.13.1)
De Pizan admits that there are many unhappy marriages in the world. But she also wants her readers to know that loving relationships are totally possible between men and women. They're only possible though if both partners are good people who have compassion for each other.
Quote #5
How many good women there are who are so conscientious in caring for their husbands, healthy or sick, with a loyal love as though their husbands were gods! (2.13.2)
De Pizan can't believe that so many men would accuse women of being selfish and unloving. She can (and does) list dozens of examples of women who care for their husbands through thick and thin, and serve them as if they were gods. And this is exactly what men of de Pizan's time wanted from their wives. Let us count the ways we're happy to not be living in the 15th century, shall we?
Quote #6
Even though this king had several concubines, as was the barbarian custom, this noble lady was nevertheless surrounded by a perfect love, so that she could not bear him to go off without her. (2.14.1)
Even when a king has all sorts of concubines and mistresses coming in and out of his bedroom, the noble lady from de Pizan's story continues to love him with total devotion. So what's up with men saying that women don't know how to love?