Matched Rules and Order Quotes

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Quote #10

My father has always broken the rules for those he loves, just as my mother has always kept them for the same reason. (31.104)

Cassia's parents protect their family in different ways. Is one easier than the other? Is it disingenuous to follow rules you don't agree with in order to protect those you love? Cassia thinks her mother is brave to do so.