"It's like, if he called me Gat, he'd really be saying, How was your school year, Indian boy whose Indian uncle lives in sin with my pure white daughter? Indian boy I caught kissing my precious Cadence?" (64.6)
Refusing to address someone by name is the ultimate insult. It's like saying, "I see you there, but I'm going to pretend you're invisible." Ugh.
"We have a warped view of humanity on Beechwood," Gat said. "I don't think you see that." (7.27)
Cadence can't see it because she lives with that warped view year-round—she might not always be on Beechwood, but she's a Sinclair year-round.
"Clairmont seemed like the seat of the patriarchy […] We figured if the house was gone, and the paperwork and data inside it gone, and all the objects they fought about gone, the power would be gone." (70.18)
It's naïve of the Liars to think that Harris wouldn't have backed up his paperwork. After all, the aunts walk around with electronic inventories of his possessions—it's not like the Sinclairs don't know what they have. Arguably, this is all the know.