Inside Out & Back Again Women and Femininity Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Part.Poem.Stanza)

Quote #1

Now I am ten
learning to embroider circular stitches (1.1.7)

Many girls in many cultures have the task of learning to sew and to make decorative embroidery.

Quote #2

… I pouted
when Mother insisted […]
… only male feet
can bring luck. (1.1.8)

This seems to be a superstition that excludes women, but instead of teaching us much about what femininity means to Hà's family, it tells us more about what it does not mean. And unfortunately, lady feet aren't associated with luck.

Quote #3

Mornings free,
Mother trusts me
to shop at the open market. (1.10.2)

Interestingly, in Saigon Hà and her mother seem to handle the shopping and cooking, but once they are refugees, Hà's brother cooks the food.