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Crazy Rich Asians Part 1, Chapter 9 Summary

How It All Goes Down

Astrid — Singapore

  • Astrid returns to Singapore in time to put her son Cassian to bed and hide her couture purchases from her husband.
  • Her husband, Michael, has been stressed and busy at work, which has required frequent traveling to China to get his new tech biz up and running.
  • Missing him, Astrid wants a perfect night to welcome him home: wine and dinner on the balcony.
  • Her family doesn't understand her hands-on approach to her life: unpacking her own luggage, talking directly to cooks. Yes, it all seems so strange.
  • We're given a little peek into the typical life expectancy of an elite Singaporean girl: which schools to attend, the tutors, the music lessons, the post-secondary experience off in the UK, the choice between medicine or law until marrying a man of prestige at 25, the kids, the social life, the grandkids, and the death.
  • But Astrid did things differently and has been scrutinized along the way: rumors followed her throughout childhood.
  • Charlie Wu became her beloved after using lots of money for grand gestures. They were engaged until Astrid broke it off, much to her family's relief, by tossing a Frosty in his face outside a Wendy's.
  • Astrid disappeared in Paris and eventually emerged engaged to Michael Teo, a middle-class "nobody".
  • The two were married in a private, small wedding, starting off an intimate life together.
  • Astrid is still in love with Michael and she's excited to see him when he comes home.
  • They eat, catch up, Michael seemingly uninterested in Astrid's time away .
  • Michael and Astrid make love. While he's in the shower, she hears a phone and assumes it is hers.
  • Confused and thinking the text message "MISS U NSIDE ME" is a joke from her cousin, she realizes she grabbed Michael's phone (1.9.19).