Graceling Marriage Quotes

How we cite our quotes: (Chapter.Paragraph)

Quote #10

"Oll […] thinks it's dangerous for us to leave each other so much freedom and make these vague plans to travel together in the future, doing Council work, with no promises. I told him I'm not going to marry you and hang on to you like a barnacle, just to keep you to myself and stop you loving anyone else." (E.19)

"If you love someone, set them free. If they come back to you they're yours; if they don't they never were."  Uh, yeah. That quote loses some of its potency because it's always showing up on cheesy posters, but it's a good one, nonetheless. And it's kind of the idea here. Except that with Katsa and Po it's more like, "If you love something, set it free. If it comes back to you, set it free again. Lather, rinse, repeat." The relationship seems to work for Po and Katsa, but what do you think? Could you live with this sort of relationship? Why or why not?